If you need help, please ask for a moderator - they are available to answer questions and solve problems.
Trolls happen; we acknowledge that sometimes human beings will try to disrupt our happy home. The best advice, based on past experience, is to ignore them. They will go away as soon as they realize they are not getting the attention that they desire.
Please, contact a moderator and let them know what is going on. They can handle the chat room access from their end and take care of it without drama and unnecessary confrontation.
At the request of the CDB crew there is a donation button located on the login page for the site. The CDB crew would like everyone to know that the average cost of maintaining a website of this size is considerable and would like to request that users donate on occasion if possible. Even a small amount is helpful.
This is an adult chat, and while we have fun, at times misunderstandings occur.
Stop, breathe, and please remember that we need to respect each other and that apologies and their acceptance go a long way toward keeping the harmony.
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The CDB was established so that people of all ages, sizes, income levels and political persuasions could meet and discuss everything from the most serious issues to the most mundane.
More importantly, it was established as a safe place where you can receive love and support from a community that you might not be able to access in the 3D world.
It is a place for us to be ourselves and a place where we don't ever have to feel alone.
The chat room below allows us all to convene, hang out and just be ourselves. This is a great place to be and if you settle in and stay awhile before you know it you'll be part of a family.
We understand if you want to hang out here for a bit as a "guest" to get a feel for things, but we really appreciate when chat room users take a moment to register at chatroll. Then we ask that you please come back to use it here, at THE CDB.
We'd love to have you join the crew and be a part of our community. Lots of interesting things happen here, and the more of us who join The CDB, the more we contribute to building upon a good thing....
NOTE from Cathy:
My aim is to build a community here where everyone can connect and enjoy themselves. Support each other, have fun with each other, watch fun stuff together, converse about life and love and relationships, and contribute to the community with your writing, your photos, whatever!
So many of us around the world feel isolated and alone, or hell -maybe just bored -
The CDB aims to change that....Join The CDB and jump right in.